6 useful tips for a strong and healthy relationship

 Healthy Relationship, a word not so unknown among us, but yet holding a great potency to build, thrive, and annihilate. To begin with, we have various relationships in our life;

the one with which we are born and the one which we make in due course of time as we grow. They play an important part in our life.

But there is a relation we make that not only stabilizes our entire physical and mental morale but also makes us feel blessed, embellishing our entire existence with joy.

Yes, I’m speaking of the one that we describe as being in a healthy relationship.  

WHAT DOES HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP ACTUALLY MEAN?

Just as the term suggests, a healthy relationship is one that brings about an overall development in our persona.

IT also makes our life more meaningful and accelerates us to the zenith of success.

TYPES OF HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS.

It ain’t be good stereotyping healthy relationships only to the one bounding two partners,

But indeed it can be of various types with different individuals.

Based on the extent they impact and influence your life, so here are some of them:

1.   With Parents
2.   With Pals
3.   With Colleagues
4.   With Pets  
5.   With Teachers…and so on.

But the focus of this very article will be on the Stereotypical one.

The one that is in between two partners, which accounts for most of the cases.

But anyways the below-given tips can be molded according to convince for any of the types mentioned above.

TIPS FOR TO BUILD A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP

We will be discussing the below-mentioned points

1.     THE BEST FRIENDS
2.     PATIENCE.
3.     THE 2^ND PRIORITY RULE.
4.     NO EXPECTATIONS.
5.     DESERVED AND COMPETENT.
6.     ULTIMATUM- towards a successful healthy relationship

  1 BEST friend FOREVER.

We all agree that the basis of all the successful relationships lies in the fact that the involving individuals have great comfort levels and nearly share the same temperament.

You should make sure before entering any healthy relationship that you are friends from the core.

Your partner can share with you any sort of sorrows, joys and be even able to criticize you without being fear of losing you and vice versa.

If we just ignore the fact that you are not great friends then there can be no relationship

and if it still thrives then it will take no time for it to turn into a toxic one. Friendship is part of a healthy relationship.

     2.  PATIENCE.

We can’t turn our backs on the fact that we expect things to work out at a phenomenal rate in this modern world.

But wait to take a deep breath, Relationships don’t work this way, it makes its way in its own pace

and to great extent depends on the receptibility of the individuals to take it to next level. Spending more time with each other can help, so try to spend a lot of time with each other

Patience not only works like magic to build a healthy relationship but also builds you as an individual.

Sometimes our beloved one doesn’t require your expertise and depth you possess from within but requires a patient heart to listen.

So being calm, patient, and having a phenomenal ability to listen can boost your relationship.

3.THE 2^ND PRIORITY RULE.

    Finally, when you are confident that you and your partner have the above-mentioned qualities, it’s time that you be receptible to enter into a relationship, but when do we know that we are ready for a one.

Your answer lies in the fact that your partner has become your 2nd priority, but who is the 1? My dear, we are speaking of a healthy relationship that has your growth as the genesis of it.

So you have to be your top priority because, in order to love someone else,

you have to love yourself! and you should be proud of yourself but at the same time not arrogant.

This imbibes respect in your relationship which can be lost in the due course of time when you make unnecessary compromises that hinder your growth.

It happens when you make the other person your center of the universe and they may take your existence for granted.

You may say that it might hurt the other person or you might be too arrogant, but believe me, if you are in a healthy relationship your partner will respect your decision and support you no matter even if the world is ending.

And if they don’t then believe me it can never nurture into a healthy one,

In fact, it might turn into a toxic one!

     4. NO EXPECTATIONS.

Kudos!  My friend if you made until here your graph of relationship now somewhat seems to be a straight line.

But now comes the rubble, when our expectations take a toll on our relationship.

When you invest your feelings on someone it ain’t unnatural to go on expecting from your beloved.

What are these expectations?

 Got me right, Intimacy.

 So let’s not deny that intimacy is a part of a relationship and you might find yourself losing to your hormones. If you and your partner are both into it then, good for you. But if one of the partners is not ready then the other one might find themselves tangled in emotions. If this is the case then you are left with two options:

-Talk with them about how you feel and also learn how your partner feels and try to make them feel comfortable and believe that it’s alright and there’s nothing wrong with it. Learn to communicate with them

If they are still not comfortable,

-Then you need to take a step back and give them their own time to get themselves prepared.

But beware not to force yourself on them.

It might tarnish your relationship.

And make your partner believe that you’re not serious about it but just fooling around them.

  The second thing that we unknowingly expect is that;

We should always be catered by the person we love.

We have to be their no. 1.

We should always have them all for ourselves.

it’s alright until a certain limit but beyond that can make you seem dominating and disrespectful. As we had already said about 2^nd priority rule, then we must have to strictly get into it.

 5.DESERVED AND COMPETENT.

Sometimes even after all these tiresome efforts we still do fail in sustaining a healthy relationship. Reason? Simply that we don’t deserve it or are not competent to have it.  Let me elaborate on this a little.

Imagine I trying to have a relationship with a popular Hollywood actor, can I? Yes, I can, if I have achieved something worth in life to date a Hollywood actor, but no? I just don’t deserve it because I have got nothing worthy in life! Yep, it might be a real-life scenario!

If you are all serious about having a relationship with the person you love then you should be all ready to support them throughout life be it financially, emotionally, or socially, etc.

If you cannot then simply it’s your waste of time and emotions. Be the best version of yourself so that you may get all you deserved. Hope you got to see the effect of 2^nd priority rule here too!

   6. ULTIMATUM -towards a successful healthy relationship.

Don’t get scared!

  If you got through these above tips then surely you are with the right person and can think of a long term relationship.

 You are gonna have a beautiful time together!

But you may think of validating your relationship

(It can be marriage or anything or simply nothing)

Validation may strengthen your relationship but if you both don’t give a damn about it,

, then congratulations buddy you are in a romantic relationship, either this way or that way. 

 Hey!

Remember you may agree or completely disagree with me.

  In end, you should be happy and satisfied and if you are not then there’s certainly something wrong.

Try to fix it, give your best to make it a workout

if irreparable and bothers you then just know that it’s not for you and you need to move on.

"Sometimes we do lose somebody just to find that we love someone more."

ALL THE BEST!